Ask Stacy
I launched my “Ask Stacy” personal advice column on LinkedIn in 2023. Please see past columns here, and feel free to connect with me there.
Note: My advice does not constitute legal advice, and my opinions do not represent those of my firm.
And, of course, if you have a question, you would like me to consider, please email that to me
Ask Stacy – What Your Garden Can Teach You About Divorce
Just the other day, I noticed how lush the flowers and trees in front of my house have become. So many plants are either blooming or on their way to blooming.
Ask Stacy: Divorce is No Laughing Matter… Or is It?
If you asked my friends and family, they would tell you that I love to laugh and cry in equal measures. Regular readers of this column know that I am a huge fan of Hallmark movies because I love how they elicit strong emotions.
Ask Stacy – Surviving the Chill of Divorce
As we move from winter into spring, many parts of the country are still contending with lingering chilly weather.
The Implications of Divorce for Business Owners: Protecting Your Assets and Your Interests
The stresses and strains of running a business can take their toll on a marriage.
All New Ask Stacy – Season’s Change, Divorce Stays the Same
When my kids were younger, I recall the end of summer as that angst-filled time when vacation was over and school was back in session.
Second Time Around: Legal Considerations for Remarriage
“If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.” That old saying could be applied to many marriages in the United States.
Breaking the Glass Ceiling: The Rich History of Women Attorneys and Their Efforts to Give Back to Communities
Women attorneys have been making their mark on the legal profession, and more broadly, on our society for decades.
Ask Stacy June – The Sun Will Come Out Tomorrow
In Southern California, where I live, during June, we experience a common weather phenomenon called “June Gloom.”
WHY I CELEBRATE PRIDE
Why do I celebrate PRIDE? A reader asked me this recently in my “ASK STACY” column, and the question struck such a personal chord that I wanted to answer it more fully here.
Ask Stacy – Love is in the air, so too is divorce.
April and May are special months! While May brings flowers from April's showers.
Ask Stacy (Spring 2025) – Surviving the Battlefield of Divorce
March is synonymous with the start of spring and the end of the cold winter months—at least for those who do not live here in sunny Southern California…
Ask Stacy: More Advice from the Love Lawyer
No, I do not call myself the “love lawyer!” A while back, friends ascribed to me that term because of my interest in love stories and my not-so-secret desire to keep families together when appropriate and if possible.
Happier Divorce, Happier Life: How Your Family Law Attorney Can Help Facilitate An Amicable Divorce
For most, divorce is an emotionally trying time.
Understanding Domestic Violence and Its Legal Implications in Divorce
Domestic violence is a scourge in our society. Sadly, it is often the elephant in the room that is seldom talked about.
Autumn Ask Stacy: Change Is Blowin’ In the Wind
As November begins, the days are getting cooler and the nights brisker. I have always enjoyed the change of seasons.
September "Ask Stacy" — Taking Sides!
As we near the end of September, there is little doubt that we have entered the political season.
The Role Social Media Might Play in Family Law Cases
Social media has permeated our lives. That is a simple fact.
Ask Stacy – Summer Vacation Edition
For many of you, August represents the dog days of summer, with cooler fall weather tantalizingly just around the corner.
July Ask Stacy: Avoiding the Fireworks of Divorce and Other Tips
You always know summer is underway after celebrating the Fourth of July and looking forward to Labor Day!
Ask Stacy: The Merry (Marry) Month of May
If April was for showers, then May is for flowers.